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Making New Friends: Cowgirl Camryn’s Guide to Making Friends in a New School Year
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Starting a new school year is exciting but can feel a bit overwhelming for many children. Friendship is one of the most valuable skills children can develop, and just like life on the farm, relationships take time, care, and patience to grow. As parents and educators, we can help guide them through this transition with support and encouragement. Drawing from Cowgirl Camryn’s experiences with her Barnyard Besties, we’ll explore how you can help the children in your care form meaningful, lasting friendships this school year.
Be Brave, Be Yourself
Being yourself is the key that unlocks many doors. Cowgirl Camryn always stays true to who she is, whether she’s finding a good book to read or having fun with her herd. Authenticity is one of the most important ingredients in any relationship. When children are encouraged to be themselves, they naturally attract friends who appreciate them for who they are. Remind your Barnyard Bestie that being themselves is the best way to form genuine connections.
- Encourage them to stand tall, smile, and say “hi” to someone new. A simple greeting can lead to meaningful friendships.
- Validate their feelings of nervousness, and remind them that showing up as they are is their superpower.
- Encourage the children in your care to explore their interests and be comfortable sharing them with others. Help them build confidence in their own identities so they can connect with friends who share similar passions.
Encourage Openness
On the farm, an open gate is a sign of welcome, inviting everyone in. Cowgirl Camryn teaches that being open to new people and experiences is the first step to forming new friendships. When she first met Lola the Miniature Donkey, Lola was shy, but by showing patience and kindness, they became fast friends. To be open to making new friends, kids can connect by asking questions and listening, too.
- Encourage your child to ask classmates about their hobbies or favorite games—this not only shows interest but helps them find common ground.
- Practice conversations at home to build your child’s confidence in asking questions and listening. This reinforces empathy and connection.
Offer a Helping Hand
On the farm, everyone helps out. Teaching children to offer a helping hand—whether it’s sharing supplies or helping a classmate—builds positive connections. Acts of kindness are a simple way for kids to show they care and make new friends.
- Help children recognize how contributing to their community, even in small ways, can foster a sense of belonging.
- Set up group activities that emphasize teamwork and sharing, whether in the classroom or at home. Sharing toys, ideas, or even space helps children understand the value of cooperation in building friendships.
Friendships, Like Seeds, Need Time to Grow
On the farm, Cowgirl Camryn knows that not all seeds sprout overnight—friendships are the same way. When she first met Alpie, it took time and understanding to build trust. In the end, patience paid off with a strong bond.
- Encourage children to be patient with new friendships, reminding them that it’s okay if relationships don’t form immediately. Help them understand that, just like plants, friendships need time to grow, and rushing the process can sometimes make it harder.
Stay Positive, Even on Tough Days
Just like caring for a farm takes patience, building friendships takes time. Some days may feel harder than others, but maintaining a positive attitude will help your child stay open to new connections. One of Cowgirl Camryn’s favorite parts of life on the farm is how everyone helps each other. When someone is feeling down, you can lend a hand, just like Camryn does when a member of her herd needs a little extra care.
- Help your child process tough emotions by talking through their feelings. Reassure them that it’s normal for friendships to take time, and each day is a new opportunity.
- If you see a friend who seems sad or lonely, ask them if they need help or just offer to sit with them. A little kindness goes a long way in building strong friendships.
Ready to Make New Friends?
Cowgirl Camryn is cheering your child on as they navigate this new school year with bravery and kindness! Don’t forget to preorder Cowgirl Camryn and the Funky Fleece Fiasco for a fun story about friendship and finding confidence. Join the adventure today!
